Category: Inspiration and Motivation

Honor Mothers, Especially in Front of the Kids

Co-parenting comes with real complexity. Real pain. Real history. But even then, especially then, honoring the mother in front of the kids is not weakness; it’s protection. You don’t have to be best friends with your co-parent, but you must be respectful partners to raise a child who feels secure.

Honoring women is also healing. One day, your children will become adults who repeat what they learned at home. Help them repeat honor. This is how we raise the next generation to value women with dignity.

The MVP Father-Son Moment That Outshined the Halftime Show at Super Bowl LX

A halftime show cannot heal what our culture keeps reopening. It can’t carry the weight of every taste, every tribe, every wound, every algorithm, or every complaint that has been waiting all year for this public stage. We are asking art to do what relationships require time to do.

The Force Still Moves: One Year Without Lawrence Wilbon

Lawrence Wilbon reminded us that love is a verb. Faith, he’d say, was something you walked out with your boots on the ground. And from lifting fathers to strengthening families, from building systems to planting seeds, Lawrence gave everything he had, without asking anything in return.

A man in a suit standing alone, smiling. A small group of people stand and talk in the background.

It Is Your Demise People Want to See, More Than Your Success

Sometimes, people are more comfortable with your potential than your progress. Success is strange that way. It exposes people. It has a quiet way of shaking loose the truth about who’s really for you and who’s only for the version of you that made them feel comfortable.

Father and son in a field of tall grass, walking toward the horizon where the sun is setting and casting golden light on the land

Why Rural Fathers Matter: Stories from Appalachia and Beyond

I keep replaying a moment from filming our PSAs with rural dads. The cameras were down, and one of the dads looked over the ridge and said, “I didn’t know I had it in me to be this kind of father.” I know that feeling. 

A father and son walking outside; the son has his arm over the father's shoulder

National Forgiveness Day: A Father Reflects on Healing, Redemption, and Second Chances

Forgiveness doesn’t erase pain; it transforms it. For fathers, it is not just a personal act. Forgiveness teaches our children that mistakes are not the end of love and that relationships are not defined by their worst moments, but by the courage to move beyond them.

The Power to Release: What Forgiveness Teaches Us About Manhood

Forgiveness isn’t about getting the other person to change. It’s about not letting what they did change you anymore. It’s an act of liberation. It’s an act of maturity. And it’s an invitation to healing.

The Death of a TV Character: The Dignified African-American Working Class Father

Last month was the finale of ‘Everybody Hates Chris,’ as I reflect back we realized that Julius Rock played by Terry Crews reminded me of a familiar TV character from my youth, James Evans the father on Good Times (played by John Amos).