Month: July 2026
Children Don’t Need Perfect Fathers. They Need Present Ones.
Making a difference to children must also mean making a difference to the fathers who love them. When we support fathers, we support children. When we help fathers navigate child support, employment, legitimation, parenting time, conflict, mental health, and co-parenting, we’re not simply serving men. We’re strengthening the circle around the child. We’re making it more possible for a child to be loved, guided, protected, and known by both parents.
In Search of James Evans
John Amos, the actor who gave James Evans his force and dignity, objected to the direction of Good Times. He believed the show’s increasing emphasis on J.J. Evans and buffoonish comedy was reducing a complicated Black family to a collection of familiar stereotypes.
Lost and Found: What Fathers Teach Us About Separation, Systems, and the Search for Home
There’s a reason airports have Lost and Found departments. They exist because everyone understands that in the rush of travel, transition, pressure, and fatigue, people misplace things that matter. Families need this same kind of place.
A place where fathers can come back and say, “I lost my way, but I am looking.” A place where mothers can say, “I am tired, but I want peace for my child.” A place where children aren’t asked to carry adult conflict in their small hands. A place where systems do more than process the loss and actually help people find what’s still possible.
Maybe that’s the work now. To keep looking. To keep listening. To keep asking where fathers have been lost in our policies, where children have been lost in our conflicts, where mothers have been lost in the exhaustion of carrying too much alone, and where families might still be found if we refuse to walk away too soon.
When Fatherhood Advocacy Goes to Washington
If we believe children deserve safe, stable, loving relationships with both parents whenever possible, then shared parenting, child support reform, child welfare reform, adoption due process, domestic violence assessment, and fatherhood services must be treated as connected parts of the same national agenda.
The Fatherhood Dividend: What Happens When Fathers Are Included
When fathers are included, children gain. When children gain, families strengthen. When families strengthen, communities rise.
That’s the “fatherhood dividend” America can no longer afford to overlook.
It’s the measurable, human return that comes when fathers are recognized not as secondary parents but as essential contributors to child development, family stability, and community well-being.
The Health of Fathers Is the Health of Families
For too long, public discussions about family health have treated fathers as secondary participants rather than essential contributors — even though decades of research demonstrate that the well-being of fathers has a direct impact on the well-being of children.
The lesson is clear: Healthy fathers contribute to healthy families.
The conversation about family well-being must become more inclusive. Supporting mothers and children remains essential. Supporting fathers is essential, too. The health of fathers isn’t separate from the health of families. It’s inseparable from it.