Kenneth Braswell, CEO, Fathers Incorporated

The nation is once again turning its attention to the future of children and youth who enter, linger in, or age out of foster care. A recent Executive Order, โ€œFostering the Future for American Children and Families,โ€ seeks to modernize systems, expand partnerships, and reduce unnecessary entries into foster care. Woven into its text is a quiet invitation that those of us in the Responsible Fatherhood field cannot afford to overlook. This Executive Order calls for a fuller, more honest collaboration between government, community organizations, and families themselves, and the mothers, fathers, and extended kin who stand at the center of those families can transform outcomes for children.

Fathers Incorporated (FI) has spent more than two decades learning what happens when you strengthen a fatherโ€™s capacity to show up, stand up, and stay engaged. Weโ€™ve witnessed children regain footing, mothers find breathing room, and communities stabilize because a dad discovered the tools and support needed to be fully present. In the world of child welfare, that truth is too often sidelined by outdated assumptions about fathers and by policies that unintentionally sidestep paternal relatives. The result is a system that leans heavily on foster care, even when safe and loving paternal options are available.

Any meaningful child welfare strategy must widen its lens. The โ€œFostering the Future for American Children and Familiesโ€ Executive Orderโ€™s emphasis on improving data systems, accelerating permanency, and strengthening partnerships creates an opening to bring fathers and paternal kin out of the margins. This is strategic. When fathers are engaged early, when their families are considered as viable kinship placements, and when agencies have the training to do this well, children experience less trauma, fewer moves, and faster pathways to safety and permanency.

The foster care system does not suffer from a shortage of love; it suffers from a shortage of aligned efforts. And the Responsible Fatherhood field stands uniquely positioned to fill a critical gap. We work with men who want to be involved but are navigating complex legal, financial, emotional, and relational barriers. We work with men who were overlooked in the earliest days of their childโ€™s case. We work with men who were never asked whether they wanted to be part of the solution.

This Executive Orderโ€™s call for modernization should also be a call for re-humanization: Fathers arenโ€™t an afterthought; theyโ€™re a stabilizing force left untapped.

Strengthening paternal engagement is not merely a matter of fairness but a matter of child well-being. When fathers are supported and brought into the core of case planning โ€” when their extended families are seen as assets rather than exceptions โ€” we reduce unnecessary entries into foster care, minimize placement disruptions, and help children maintain identity, culture, and connection.

The question is how we move from possibility to practice.

How Fatherhood Organizations Can Advance a New Vision for Child Welfare

1. Build stronger pipelines between fatherhood programs and child welfare agencies.

Fatherhood organizations already hold the trust of men who often feel alienated by the child welfare system. Establishing formal collaborations โ€” with shared referral pathways, joint trainings, and regular case consultations โ€” allows agencies to engage fathers earlier and more effectively. When fatherhood practitioners are integrated into the child welfare systemโ€™s front end, paternal relatives are identified quickly, assessed appropriately, and considered as viable placement and support options.

2. Offer specialized training that helps child welfare professionals engage fathers consistently and without bias.

Child welfare workers are overburdened, and most have never received training focused explicitly on fathers. The field needs models that teach how to locate fathers, understand their legal and emotional realities, and assess paternal kin networks. Offering father engagement training grounded in empathy, cultural awareness, and trauma-informed practice can shift workplace norms and accelerate permanency.

3. Advocate for policy reforms that ensure paternal kinship placement is prioritized.

Too many fathers learn about child welfare involvement after major decisions have been made about their children. Fatherhood organizations can elevate stories, data, and policy recommendations that emphasize early identification, equal consideration of both sides of the family, and streamlined access to services that help fathers meet safety standards. This includes advocating for technology updates, improved information sharing, and flexible funding to support paternal engagement interventions.

The child welfare system is not broken because it lacks compassion. It is strained because it has not yet learned how to harness the full strength of the families it serves. Mothers carry tremendous weight. Fathers carry tremendous potential. And when both sides of a childโ€™s family are engaged, supported, and resourced, the entire arc of that childโ€™s life can shift.

If this Executive Order marks a turning point in modernizing structures, then the Responsible Fatherhood field must mark a turning point in modernizing perceptions. We know fathers matter. We know their families matter. And we know a system that overlooks them is a system that will continue to lose children in the gaps.

This is a moment to align purpose with policy, narrative with practice, and federal ambition with community expertise. Strengthening fathers is not a side initiative but a core strategy for reducing foster care involvement, stabilizing families, and giving our children what every child deserves: the grounding presence of the people who love them most.


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Fathers Incorporated (FI) is a national, non-profit organization working to build stronger families and communities through the promotion of Responsible Fatherhood. Established in 2004, FI has a unique seat at the national table, working with leaders in the White House, Congress, U.S. Department of Health & Human Services, Family Law, and the Responsible Fatherhood Movement. FI works collaboratively with organizations around the country to identify and advocate for social and legislative changes that lead to healthy father involvement with children, regardless of the fatherโ€™s marital or economic status, or geographic location. From employment and incarceration issues, to child support and domestic violence, FI addresses long-standing problems to achieve long-term results for children, their families, the communities, and nation in which they live.

2 Comments

  1. Is there a dialogue with the role of family resource centers in fatherhood efforts? Can National Family Support Network play such a role through their ties to FRCs? Do FRCs operate model fatherhood programs and track their results?

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    1. Fathers Incorporated December 18, 2025 at 11:20 am

      This is an excellent questionโ€”and one that deserves deeper exploration.

      There is a natural and necessary connection between Family Resource Centers and responsible fatherhood efforts. FRCs are designed as prevention hubs, supporting families before crisis escalates, which aligns directly with the goals of fatherhood work. In many communities, including our work in West Virginia, fathers already interact with Family Resource Centers, but often indirectly and without intentional engagement strategies focused specifically on them.

      The National Family Support Network is well positioned to help bridge this gap through its national ties to FRCs. By elevating father-intentional practices, encouraging partnerships with fatherhood organizations, and supporting common measures of father engagement, NFSN can play a meaningful role in strengthening how fathers are included in family stabilization and child welfare prevention efforts.

      Some Family Resource Centers do operate promising father-inclusive activities, often in partnership with local providers, but consistent documentation and outcome tracking related to father engagement remains limited across the field. That gap presents both a challenge and an opportunity.

      We will be sharing a forthcoming blog that explores this topic in much greater detail, including lessons from our work in West Virginia and what it means for the future of child welfare prevention through father engagement.

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