Tag: parenting
Honor Mothers, Especially in Front of the Kids
Co-parenting comes with real complexity. Real pain. Real history. But even then, especially then, honoring the mother in front of the kids is not weakness; it’s protection. You don’t have to be best friends with your co-parent, but you must be respectful partners to raise a child who feels secure.
Honoring women is also healing. One day, your children will become adults who repeat what they learned at home. Help them repeat honor. This is how we raise the next generation to value women with dignity.
Co-Parenting Maturity: The Skill Set That Keeps Parents Strong When Romance Can’t
We want to move co-parenting out of the category of “something you hope works out” and into the category of “a set of learnable skills.” We also want to be honest about what usually goes wrong. It’s not always that people are cruel. Often, they are underdeveloped for the complexity they’ve been handed.
The Top Five Traits of Successful Co-Parenting Relationships
Co-parenting is one of the most significant tests of maturity, love, and patience that two adults can undertake. It requires shifting the focus from what ended between the parents to what must continue for the child.
Over time, through thousands of conversations with fathers and families, we’ve seen what works and what doesn’t. The five elements detailed here consistently stand out as markers of successful co-parenting relationships.
Why Rural Fathers Matter: Stories from Appalachia and Beyond
I keep replaying a moment from filming our PSAs with rural dads. The cameras were down, and one of the dads looked over the ridge and said, “I didn’t know I had it in me to be this kind of father.” I know that feeling.
When Co-Parenting Works: Building Families Beyond Brokenness
Co-parenting isn’t about liking each other. It’s about loving the child more than you dislike the past, and that requires something deeper than shared custody or court agreements. It requires humility, maturity, and a commitment to partnership even when the marriage (or the relationship) didn’t survive.
Fathers Incorporated Takes Flight with How to Train Your Dragon to Champion Fatherhood
As audiences follow Hiccup and his dragon, Toothless, on their journey toward self-discovery and peace, the film also tells another story—one of growing up, stepping back, and learning how to be present as a parent.
Federal Grants Offer Powerful New Opportunities to Strengthen Fathers, Families, and Futures
Three new federal grant opportunities from the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) could mark a transformative moment for fatherhood and family-serving organizations across the nation.
How Fathers Can Embrace Emotional Intelligence to Raise Resilient and Empathetic Children
Emotional intelligence (EI), the ability to recognize, understand, and manage one’s emotions and the emotions of others, is a cornerstone of this transformation. For fathers, embracing EI is not only an avenue to deeper connection with their children but also a way to equip them with the skills to navigate life’s complexities with resilience, empathy, and self-awareness.
Fathers Incorporated’s 5th Annual “Home for the Holidads” Program
Fathers Incorporated’s Home for the Holidads fills a critical gap by focusing on the children who are most affected by their parent’s absence.
The quiet after the storm
The night before, I stayed up, switching between networks, trying to listen not just to the results but to the stories behind them. Numbers don’t lie, they say.
Shattering Myths: Why Black Men’s Votes Matter in Shaping the Future
Historically, Black men have been deeply engaged in the fight for civil rights and political representation.
Today, I Lost My Father Again: The Legacy of Good Times’ James Evans on Black Boys
Amidst the challenges, there was one constant: James Evans, played by John Amos. For many Black children, particularly those growing up in father-absent homes, James Evans was more than a character.
The World Keeps Telling Us Black Men and Boys Are Throwaways: I’m Starting to Believe We Are
There’s a dangerous and persistent narrative in society today that Black men and boys are disposable—throwaways.
The Death of a TV Character: The Dignified African-American Working Class Father
Last month was the finale of ‘Everybody Hates Chris,’ as I reflect back we realized that Julius Rock played by Terry Crews reminded me of a familiar TV character from my youth, James Evans the father on Good Times (played by John Amos).
Black Dads and Economic Empowerment: A Pathway to Thriving, Not Just Surviving
Vice President Harris Releases Opportunity Agenda for Black Men: A Step Toward Economic Empowerment, but What About Black Fathers?